How to live a happy and successful life

How to live a happy and successful life

Everyone wishes to live a happy and successful life. And many of us are asking how we can get Success in life? Most of the people are finding the answer to this question. But only some can find an answer. I will tell you one thing, living a happy and successful life nowadays is so difficult but not impossible.

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Happy life

This post is big, so take your time and read slowly and fully. 

Just follow the guideline you will see down of this book. And I will guarantee that you will start living a happy and successful life. So now I will give you some tips to be Successful in life and live a happy life. So let’s start –

NOW WE WILL COVER THESE HABITS FOR “HOW TO LIVE A HAPPY AND SUCCESSFUL LIFE” –

  1. Be social

  2. Start passive income

  3. Do exercise

  4. Be mentally healthy

  5. Wake up early

  6. Meditation

  7. Leave masturbation

  8. Set your goals

  9. Make to-do list

  10. Eat good

1. BE SOCIAL –

Social means you are easily got adjust in any social situation. Can easily talk to people.  Have good and lots of connection with people. Can talk and behave confidently in a social situation. If you have these qualities your life is going well and will go well.

Being social is very important for our life. You have seen in your life as well that, the person who has lots of friends and has a good social connection is living a really good life.

He is happy in his life. Today life if you want to get the success you have to know many people in your life. Academically good is not so important, good and confident personality playing the main role in life.

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Friends

The main cause of being unsocial –

You know what life we are living now? DIGITAL LIFE means we have internet this internet is the main cause to make people unsocial. Now we have Facebook, Watsup, twitter, Instagram and YouTube everything in an electronic device. Your whole life is on a phone. Everyone is so busy with their phone all the time. It’s ok to use but only for a limited time. Like 2 hours a day.

Many people make the Internet as a profession they are making money online. That’s other things, its good you are earning but stay connected to the outer world as well not by internet in really.

If you are an unsocial person your life will be not good. You will not feel any enjoyment in life. Because you don’t want to come out from your comfort zone.

And if you don’t like to meet with people or talk with them your life is not going well. There is something wrong with you then. If you are in stress or your heart is breathing high or your forehead and hands sweat while in social gathering it’s a warning sign for your life. You have to make it ok before it became worse.

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Fear

SO NOW I WILL TELL YOU HOW YOU CAN BE MORE SOCIAL AND ENJOY YOUR LIFE FULLEST –

1. EVERY DAY SPEND AT LEAST 2 HOURS OUTSIDE FROM YOUR HOUSE AND OFFICE –

In these 2 hours talk with people and share your thoughts with them. So don’t skip these 2 hours from your day.

Start with 2 hours and later you can increase them to 3 or 4 hours. So if you are just starting this habit of 2 hours every day, maybe you will start feeling nervous and shy while meeting with others.

Your brain keeps on making excuse for not to go out or be social. You have to beat these bad feeling and go for this war. I call it a war because it’s really a war between us and mind. Because mind just wants to stay in his comfort zone but us want to improve our lives that are why it’s a fight that you have to win.

Slowly make it your habit. Now you can see some positive changes in you like.

  • You became more confident
  • You know more people now
  • Your brain starts functioning better
  • You are happier now
  • You have satisfied in your life
  • Confident in a social situation
  • Easily can express his feeling with others

So these all positive changes you will see in your personality after you made this 2 hours daily habit.

2. TALK WITH STRANGER –

Talking with someone you don’t know is very important to improve social skills. Try to say hi or hello. And then make more conversation. Stranger means someone you are seeing daily like in train, classroom etc, not anyone.

3. DO SOME ACTIVATE THAT DEVELOP YOUR SELF-CONFIDENCE.

Like –

  1. Do exercise daily
  2. Do meditation
  3. Reading
  4. Honest in your work
  5. Clean your self-means maintain proper hygiene
  6. Masturbation
  7. Don’t do any addiction like Drugs or alcohol and smoking

4. JOIN ANY SOCIAL CLUB IN YOUR AREA.

That will help you a lot to meeting with new people and improving self-confidence. Just find on the internet you will see lots of social club in your area.

NOTE –

DON’T TO AFRAID WHAT WILL PEOPLE SAY. Don’t care at all. You’re not made to be for people, just live your life. This is the main reason why we are afraid to talk in a social situation because we think people will laugh on us; people will say he is not a cool dude etc. Just throw these negative thought away and start living now because life is short, you don’t know when you will die?

LET’S KNOW THE MORE BENEFITS OF BEING A SOCIAL PERSON –

  1. His mental health became strong. If you are an unsociable person you will defiantly suffer from anxiety and fear and these are mental disorders. So be social and make your mind healthy.
  2. You will enjoy life. We are here in life for what? Off course enjoy, so be social and enjoy your life.
  3. Success in life. In nowadays being social is very important to be successful. Maybe someone can lead you towards success and money.
  4. You will be happy.
  5. Good confidence.

 

SO THIS WAS ALL ABOUT BE SOCIAL IF YOU WANT TO LIVE A HAPPY AND SUCCESSFUL LIFE THIS IS MY FIRST STEP. BE SOCIAL AND MAKE MORE FRIENDS AND ENJOY.

CONCLUSION

Start meeting with people enjoys their company. And know every person you meet can teach you something and you can get benefits. Don’t be afraid what people going to say just burp out. Don’t be shy or stupid because you will be behind and get nothing.

SOCIAL ANXIETY

Some people can’t enjoy their life because of social anxiety. Social anxiety is a fear of being observed in a social situation. If you have that you can’t enjoy and live your life fully. You have to kick it now. Because of this social anxiety, you will spoil your personal relationships.

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Anxiety

Example and symptoms of social anxiety –

  1. Think so much about your future social gathering. Like your sister birthday is coming next week and there will be her friends, your relatives, and other people. Now your mind starts thinking – what will happen if I will sweat.

What if someone will tell me dance or tell something about me. So these are some example of upcoming events. And we keep on getting much anxious. It’s ok to take little stress about it but much can lead to anxiety.

2. While paying money in the cash counter in the supermarket. If there are more queues and then your turn will come, you start sweating and feeling anxious. Because you think what if I will sweat, he is watching me, is I am looking good, I don’t know what they will think about me etc.

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Hypermarket cash counter

3. While eating in the food court or in a friend’s First, maybe you will confident but when suddenly someone will talk with you, your head and back start becoming hot. And slowly sweat will start coming from your forehead, hands, and feet’s, underarms and back. You just want to go out and want to leave the food but you can’t do that because you have still food in your plate. So you will start eating quickly and run from there.

4. While in public transport. You will have the same feeling of nervousness inside the public

5. If you have to give a speech in front of peoples you will be in much stress. You will be kept on thinking so negative like what if I can’t speak confidently, what if I slip, what if people will laugh on me etc. These negative thoughts keep on coming in your mind every time.

And when that time comes that you have to speak, again your mind starts playing with you. Your mind keeps on reminding you are you sweating? Are you nervous? What will happen if people will laugh? And many more.

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6. Your mind became blank in a social Like you don’t know what I should do. You can’t decide what you should do.

7. You don’t like to be introducing yourself to others because you have to say something about you in front of some people.

8. You are afraid to go into a room where already lots of people are sitting. These symptoms develop in you since a child but you never notice them. And now they became huge and eating your happiness.

9. While writing in a paper in front of lots of people. You start feeling nervous.

10. If someone criticizes you take it so intensely.

11. When you are center of attraction like your marriage or your birthday.

12. While you are doing something, and there are lots of people you start anxiously.

13. When you’re talking with your high level of people. Like your company CEO or Managing director.

So these are the example of social anxiety.

WHAT ARE THE REASON FOR SOCIAL ANXIETY –

  1. The first reason for your social anxiety is your past experience. When you were a child and you start avoiding the social situation, you are creating a big mass for your future. Maybe you have some bad memories or bad experience during a social.

For example, people make a joke about you in past, they keep on laughing your style etc.

These all bad experience stay in our subconscious mind. And we start going away from being social. Because our mind keeps on telling us that it’s not good maybe people will laugh on you etc.

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2. The second reason is doing masturbation (satisfy yourself sexually with your hand). This habit ruins our life and our self-confidence. So if you are habitual of this habit defiantly you will start becoming anxious while in a social For more detail about masturbation please keep reading this book till the end.

3. You are a lazy person.  Just want to stay at a home in front of your electronic devices. Don’t want to come out from your comfort zone. Don’t like to go out and enjoy with your friends. Slowly this laziness starts running your life by making you less socially active person.

4. You are not doing anything that develops your self-confidence or personality. Like exercise or meditation.

5. A chemical imbalance in the brain like serotonin. This chemical helps in regulating our mood. So if you have some chemical problem in the brain this will also lead you toward social anxiety.

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Brain

6. You think a lot negative about yourself. Like if I talk people will think I am a fool, they will laugh on me, I am not confident etc. These all negative thoughts make you more depress and anxious.

HOW TO COMPLETELY DESTROY SOCIAL ANXIETY –

  1. Get a course of personality development and public speaking. You will learn there many things that will boost your self-confidence.

2. Do regular exercise and meditation.

3. Drink less or stop alcohol completely. Just think what did you get from it?

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Drinking is bad

-4. Lesser the intake of caffeine.

5. Start thinking positively.

6. While in a social situation focus on others not in you.

7. Do breathing exercise. Inhale air from your nose; hold it for some seconds then exhale it slowly from your mouth. Does this exercise at least 20 minutes every day in the morning.

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Breathing exercise

8. Face your nervousness or fear. Remember you have only one life and you can die at any time. So why these fear and anxiety are blocking you from living a happy. Just face it, so what if you get a failure. Keep going don’t think about past life in the present. So what if you feel nervous in past you have a new day with great energy gone ahead.

9. Remove at least 3 or 4 hours from your day and spend these with your friends or go out. You have to make it a daily

10. Get a daily diet with Omega 3 fatty acids; these are very essential for brain health. You can get it in fishes, nuts and in flaxseed.

11. Leave tobacco and smoking.

12. Last if your social anxiety still exits by doing these steps then you have to go for medical treatment.

2. FIND WAYS TO GET PASSIVE INCOME

Passive income is the money that you will get while you are sleeping or doing nothing. You are searching for how to live a happy and successful life. We know money is very important in our daily life. without money or less money, you can’t live a happy and successful life.  So try passive income source and start living your life.

So these are the way you can earn a good amount of passive income.

  1. WRITE A BOOK –

And sell it in Amazon and other sellers. In term of E-book and a real book.

2. AFFILIATE MARKETING –

This is a great way to make passive income because when people click on the affiliate links on your site, you receive a commission at no additional cost to them when they purchase a product or service. For this, you need a website that has many views. There are thousands of companies who want online sellers.

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Amazon

3. CREATE AN ONLINE STORE –

you create an online store that offers products from certain manufacturers. You can join any big and popular manufacturers. So if any person visits your site, orders a product, then your system sends the order to the specific manufacturer. The manufacturer then completes the order by shipping it directly to the customer. And you will get a commission.

4. MAKE YOUTUBE CHANNEL –

Put adds in your videos and gets paid every time if someone watches those ads.

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YouTube

5. START A WEBSITE –

Write blogs and get some traffic. Then put some adds on it and start earning.

CONCLUSION –

Take benefit of the Internet and start earning while you sleep. Money is very important for creating a good and successful life. So start doing it now.

3. DO EXERCISE DAILY –

Doing exercise daily can lead you a great life. Exercise has lots of benefits in your life like –

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Excercise
  1. IT WILL DEVELOP YOUR SELF-CONFIDENCE –

By exercising daily you will feel better about yourself and your body structure and that will boost your self-confidence.

2. WE WILL BE AWAY FROM MANY DISEASES –

There are lots of diseases that will never affect you by doing exercise daily.

3. YOU WILL START EATING HEALTHY –

There is a study that shows, if you do exercise daily you will crave for good food and healthy.

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Healthy food

4. IMPROVE QUALITY OF LIFE –

You will be more focused in your work and in your life. And you will become more productive.

5. SLEEP WELL –

After doing exercise daily your sleeping habit will be improved. You will start sleeping good and nice.

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Good sleep

6. MOTIVATE YOU TO GET RID of BAD HABIT –

Doing regular exercise will motivate you to stop bad habits like smoking and drinking.

7. GOOD HEART AND LUNGS HEALTH –

You will start breathing nicely. You will not get easily tired because you will now take a good amount of oxygen in your body.

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Lungs

8. INCREASE YOU’RE METABOLISM –

Your body internal functions will become faster. Your fat will start disappearing now.

9. YOU WILL FEEL HAPPY –

It will help to release Dopamine and endorphins which is responsible for making you happy. And your stress level will be reduced.

10. BALANCED WEIGHT –

Exercise helps to burn more calories inside your body that will lead to weight loss.

11. GOOD MUSCLES AND BONES HEALTH –

Exercise regularly is releasing a chemical that causes the muscle to absorb more amino acid. And this process will lead to good muscle. And if you want your bone live healthily and never want to suffer from osteoporosis then start doing exercise

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Good muscles

12. YOUR BRAIN AND MEMORY BECAME SHARP –

Exercise increases the production of hormones that enhance the growth of brain cells. And if you want to prevent “Alzheimer’s disease” and schizophrenia you should start doing exercise daily.

13. BETTER SEX LIFE –

Exercising regularly improve blood flow in reproduction parts. And it will enhance sexual performance and health.

CONCLUSION –

If you want to live a happy and successful life start doing exercise every day for at least 30 minutes. And you will find positive changes in yourself soon. Just don’t skip it make a perfect schedule for each day.

4. BE MENTALLY HEALTHY –

Mentally healthy is very important for live a happy and successful life. So here are some tips to become mentally healthy.

  1. DO POSITIVE SELF-TALK EVERY DAY-

For good mental health we should have a good self-image and if you keep on saying negative things to us it will impact your brain negatively. So start a habit of saying positive words to you every day.

2. MAKE A DAILY CHECKLIST –

for the upcoming day before you sleep. And put everything you want to do on that day. Don’t make it so complicated means don’t make yourself a machine. Give yourself time to enjoy as well. And don’t put big goals that you can’t achieve that day. Because if you fail you feel guilty for yourself. And if you achieve all that you write, you will feel good and confident. And that will make your brain healthy.

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Daily checklist

3. DO EXERCISE EVERY DAY- 

As I said before when you will do exercise our body relies on a hormone call Endorphins that boost your mood. And it’s good for your mental health. If it’s possible to exercise in the morning and in the fresh air with proper sunlight. Because sunlight will help in to produce serotonin in the brain and it’s a stress reducer. So while making daily checklist put exercise there as well.

4. SLEEP AT LEAST 7 HOURS EVERY DAY-

Good sleep is very important for your brain health. So set a routine to sleep every day.

5. DO MEDITATION EVERY DAY-

Doing meditation every day for 10 to 20 minute has a very powerful impact on brain health. Meditation changes brain structure and increases gray matter in your brain.

It makes your brain relax and gives a feeling of living now. About more meditation health benefits, I will explain latterly. That’s another topic. For now, just make it a regular habit. It boosts your concentration power and makes you feel better.

6. DRINK GREEN TEA EVERY DAY-

This will help you maintain proper brain and mental health. Green tea has an amino acid known as L-theanine which increases the activity of neurotransmitter GABA. This neurotransmitter has an anti-anxiety Green tea helps to produce Dopamine in the brain, which is also known as feeling good hormone.

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Green Tea

7. TRAVEL WITH YOUR FRIENDS-

Go around or make a tour for 1 or 2 weeks. Traveling is really helpful for better brain health. Make a plan to go out every year.

8. SAY NO TO TOBACCO NOW-

Just leave smoking cigarette and chewing tobacco because of it

9. SHARE YOUR FEELING AND THOUGHTS WITH OTHERS –

Don’t keep your feeling inside your mind just blow them out. You can write down your feelings. So you will feel better and your mind will not have much load. Find someone to share your feelings like your wife, mother etc.

10. EAT GOOD AND HEALTHY-

Eating healthy is very important to keep the mind healthy. Just make a proper routine of eating every day. Have a proper time for eating three main meals of the day.

What food you should eat for a healthy brain? So the answer is –

Lots of fruit and vegetables

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Fruits

Nuts

Milk product

Oily fish with good Omega 3.

Lots of water

Pumpkin seeds – These are a rich source of Magnesium, zinc, copper, and iron which are very important for brain function.

11. LEARN FROM YOUR MISTAKES –

Learning from your past mistake and never repeat them is a very helpful habit for a strong and healthy mind. Just write down all the mistakes you have did in your past and pledge to never repeat them again.  You can do it on a monthly basis, weekly basis or Daily basis.

CONCLUSION

Mental health is important than physical health. If you are mentally fit you will surely live a happy and successful life. 

5. START WAKING UP EARLY IN MORNING –

This is the 5th habit of making you perfectly to live a happy and successful life. 

“Early to bed and early to rise makes a man healthy, wealthy and wise” – Ben Franklin

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Wow Morning

This saying is so true, so start a good routine of waking up early.

If you see the lifestyle of successful and bilinear people they have one thing in common and that is the habit of waking up early. Early means 5 am or less like 4 am.

If you will also start making this good habit you will start felling change in your life. Because you will have much time to do what you want to do.

NOW I WILL TELL WHY YOU SHOULD WAKE UP EARLY –

  1. You will feel relax.

You will have much time to do for making yourself better and successful. Means you can do exercise, meditation, and reading in the early morning without any hustle.

2. Time to plan your day properly.

3. Healthy and wealthy life.

4. Productive day.

5. In early morning your brain is calm so you can do the work you want. You will be more concentrated.

6. You will have good food Because you have enough time to make it.

7. If you will make this a habit you will start feeling more energetic all day.

8. One study shows that if you start waking up early your stress level will be reduced. So it’s good for mental health.

9. Better sleep. If you start rising up early definitely you will start sleeping early and you will sleep better.

10. Feeling happy. You will definitely feel happy if you woke up 5 or 4 am, because of beautiful nature.

11. You will enjoy the beauty of nature. Wow, that will be a great

HOW I CAN WAKE IN EARLY?

  • Start sleeping early as possible. If you want to wake at 4 AM you need to sleep at 9 pm or 10 pm.
  • Don’t use your electronic devices before 1 hour for sleep.
  • Put alarms. And just force yourself to wake in first alarm only.

CONCLUSION-

If you wish to live a happy and successful life, then make waking up early your daily habit now.

 

6. MEDITATION –

This the 6th habit to live a happy and successful life.

Its a technique to control your thoughts and mind. Every successful person is doing it on daily basis.

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Meditation

 

HOW TO DO IT –

To do meditation just finds a peaceful and comfortable place. Then sit and close your eyes and focus on your breath. If you are doing the first time there will so many thoughts that will come into your mind. It will be difficult for you to concentrate on your breathing because the frequency of these thoughts will be much.

So now what you have to do keep deleting those thoughts one by one and make your mind focus on your breath. It will only possible if you make meditation a habit.

I found doing meditation perfect after doing exercise.

Benefits of doing meditation every day –

NOTE –

If you want to get these all benefits from meditation you have to do it every day at least 10 to 20 minutes. Yes, only 10 to 20 minutes from your 1400 minutes in a day. So it’s not a big deal start it from now and gets these all benefits.

1) Meditation helps to reduce stress because it reduces the production of stress-producing hormone call Cortisol.

And help to increase good feeling hormone-like serotonin.

2.  Meditation helps to sleep nicely.

3.  Life will become happier and makes you less angry person.

4.  Meditation attracts some good habit as well. Maybe you will stop smoking or drinking completely after doing meditation.

5. It increases concentration

6.  Meditation is good for heart health. It improves blood circulation and lowers the heart rate.

7. It helps boost memory. Your chance of getting Dementia will be less. Which is a brain disease where our memory lose? We start forgetting things. But by doing meditation, your memory power increase.

8.  It will increase Gray matter in the brain. Which help in self-awareness, compassion, and introspection.

 

7. LEAVE MASTURBATION –

Masturbation is a habit to satisfy yourself sexually with your hand. If you have a habit of doing masturbation you can never live a good and successful life.

This bad habit has lots of negative impact on our life and body.

I will tell you to know what those negative impacts are –

1)Slowly your brain size starts decreasing, your power of concentration and thinking start reducing. PORN just squeezing your brain power, and make chemical imbalance in the brain. And because of this, you will start doing some activities of a crazy or mental unhealthy person.

You can’t remember things easily, and you keep on noting everything in your diary or phone. If you don’t leave this habit your brain can’t function properly, and it will effect badly on every part of your body and life.

2. Maybe you can indulge in a serious crime like Rape. Because you cannot do that kind of porn with your life partner like you are watching.

3. You will become more introvert or unsociable person. Think about your life in this stage. There will be no life I think. Porn is very easy to see and doing masturbation is very quick action. But their consequences are much worse.

4. Slowly your motivation and your desire to live a happy and successful life start reducing.

5. 58 % of porn addictive person have finance issue. They don’t have much money. Because porn addictive people can’t focus on their work.

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No money

SOME MORE – 

6. You can’t able to walk after 3 or 4 years because much semen loses effect efficiency of joints. If your wish is to win a marathon then it can’t be fulfilled.

7. Your immune system became week, and you will suffer many infections and disease.

8. You can’t enjoy real sex. And your relation with girls will be not good.

9. After doing masturbation, how do you feel about yourself? I think we feel very bad. We feel low about our self. And this will effect on our self-confidence that will start getting low and low. And if your self-confidence is low, how can you achieve your life goals.

LITTLE MORE SIDE EFFECTS – 

10. You can’t enjoy your life. Because your days are so tired and lazy. You just want to sleep, because you are losing your strength.

11. Masturbation affects your digestive system. You will not feel hunger. And then your internal organ starts dying until you die. So my dear friends that Why you should stop masturbation.

12. Our sperms contain DNA and RNA which contains enzymes, proteins, calcium, and other important items. Every ejaculation contains millions of sperms, so you can imagine how many enzymes, proteins, calcium, and other important items we are wasting. It’s a much loose for your body.

13. Everyone like beautiful hair, but masturbation cause much Hair loss. Stop it now if you love your hair.

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Bald

14. It causes sleeping disorders and anxiety or depression.

HOW YOU CAN LEAVE IT NOW –

  • Stop watching porn. And if you are craving to watch porn just get up and start pushing up or drink water. Go out and breathe slowly.
  • Do meditation it helps you to focus on your work, not on porn.
  • Don’t use any electronic device before 1 hour of sleep.
  • Keep reading the bad impact of masturbation on your life.
  • Do exercise every day morning and in the evening it helps you a lot in sleeping better and on time.

NOTE –

If you don’t to masturbation for 1 month by practicing good habit sure you will leave this habit. And you will start living your life well.

CONCLUSION-

Leave masturbation if you want to live a happy and successful life. You can’t do anything if it will become your addiction and spoil your life already. Your body will be already damaged if you continue this bad and horrible habit.

 

8. SET YOUR GOALS –

Goal setting is very important for living a good life. You have to know what you really want to do.

So the best thing is that just writes down your goals in a notebook and start achieving them. And set realistic goals which you can achieve.

I want to share my goals here –

1. I want to travel at least 100 countries, with lots of good information and videos for my YouTube channel and my website.

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I want to travel

2. I want to earn 1 M $ from my website and YouTube channel.

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money

3. I want a good physic like a bodybuilder. I like the body of the Rock.

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Good body

4. I want me as a super confident person, who can enjoy and express his feeling easily with people. A person who has lots of connection or friends.

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Hitender Smiling

5. I want my family happy every time, like my parents, my wife and my children.

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Happy life

6. I don’t want my hand to be sweaty at all. Because I wish to be a good driver with a good collection of vehicles.

So these are my goals, write down your goals as well and start doing hard work to achieve them. You need to take action immediately if you want to fulfill your goals.

Now set a time period like 5 years or 10 to achieve all your goals. Make small goals to achieve your main goals every day.

 

9. MAKE A TO DO LIST FOR EVERY DAY –

Every night before sleeping makes a to-do list for the coming day. And include the small goal that will help you to achieve your life goal in the list. That habit will help you a lot to live a happy and successful life.

 

 

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